About me

I'm Helina Metsik, your provocateur of positive change, your partner in creating strong relationships, and your advocate for sexual pleasure.

You know what's wild? My last name, Metsik.

‘Metsik’ literally means ‘Wild’ in Estonian. Pretty fitting for an untamed pleasure activist!

It's more than a name, though. It's a rebellion against all the shame around sex, it’s a fight for sexual rights for all individuals. It’s an invitation to create a community that celebrates authentic sexual expression and exploration. 

So no, I am not your conventional counsellor. I'm a wild sexual being who has observed, tested, and personally tried every-pleasure-boosting-thing to provide you not just with textbook knowledge, but a level of expertise that is lived, researched, and applied.

My Journey

Picture this I was the girl magnetically attracted to everything considered not very lady-like. Yeah, that was me. I’ve always been experimenting with taboos and breaking the silence around sex and relationships. I consumed sex and all there was to know about it like there was no tomorrow. Books, forums, magazines, porn (because why not?) – I devoured it all. Mistakes were made, lessons were learned, and here I am, your certified sex counsellor.

Why Sex and Relationships?

My craving for exploration could not be contained within the frameworks of tradition and religion. My curious mind got bored with strict relationships that felt like I was stuck. I wanted something different, something that felt authentically me. I decided to cheat on shame with unapologetic sexuality, and now I help others do the same.

PS: No shame here anymore, but I still cringe at some awkward memories.

My Mission: Bringing Sexy Back… to Your Life

I am here to guide you in decoding the language of your own body. Together, we'll explore the nuances of pleasure, self-love, assertive communication and authentic connection. Through understanding ✨yourself✨ and your partner(s) better, you’ll learn to navigate the beautiful journey of your own sexuality and relationships with confidence.

In other words: I use education, training and communication to bring pleasure back to your life.

Ready to invest in yourself?